My favorite film of all time due to nostalgia mainly. It made a great impression on me. I do believe it still is a great film but I've probably watched better films than this one.
One day you'll hear me speak about it. Saying this is a problem only shown through the perspective of "white men" is very simplistic. Although he clearly shouldn't be seen as a role model (he's a literal terrorist), Durden is as praised as he is because many of the things he says resonate with men left behind by a society that doesn't care about them. It's not all black and white, I mean.
The most interesting and compelling antagonists after all are the ones who resonate with us against our wishes.